Out of Sudden

Out of sudden, I have a phrase flash in my mind.

This phrase made a huge impact on me and stunted me for seconds.

Instead spending times hating the people that we don't care;

Putting times on loving the people we care.

Probably this phrase had been stated by some philosopher or author before. But I swear I did not plagiarize anyone of those.

(Plagiarize is a SCARY words for students)

This phrase had recalled me one of my friends in KL. Below is a picture of her…

Hairy LEG!!!! (Just kidding)

She is a lovely friend (regarded as Ms. A) who gifted with a lot of nice personality. Everyone who knows her will wish to be good friend, best friend with her.

So do I.

Due to my GIFTED personality (I am a gifted pervert), she recognized me as her best friend as well. (At least I thought so)

She has a lot of friends. I remember one day, one of her friend, who is my friend as well, had did a very wrong thing.

This did-wrong-friend (I will regard her as Ms. B), in my point of view, has an unjustifiable personality I would say. She is sometime being very helpful but I found she always wish to get credit from being that. When you in trouble, you won't think of her unless you cannot reach other friends, because you don't want to see her promote herself in no time after she helped you. Sometime when a group of us gathered, everyone having fun, she just wants to ruin it. She will either halted the fun by saying our act is outrageous, ridiculous, or try to join by saying something, which is totally unrelated (but sounds wise) and made us drowned in the Pool of Question Marks.

After she made the very wrong thing to Ms. A, Ms. A gets really mad, feeling hurt and so and that, eventually Ms. A just breaks her friendship with Ms. B.

As Buddhism, I try to advise her to forgive her although I personally don't like Ms. B

(So here is one of the conflicts of me being a Buddhism)

She stood firmly and I failed to convince anything. Ms. A and Ms. B friendships remain hostile (exaggerate), and my friendships with Ms. B remain normal.

What I trying to say in whole shitload of story above is,

Although I am a friend of Ms. B, I don't like her. Sometime her one small act can cause the hatred of me for whole day. For that particular day, I can't concentrate on my own thing. My mind is full of hatred towards her.

As for Ms. A, what happened to Ms. B is just worth shit to her. She doesn't care and she can do her things freely out of hatred.

At the end,

I don't hate but I hate.

She hates but she doesn't hate.

Now, I realized Ms. A had made a wise decision, one and for all, clean and clear. Ms. B always said Ms. A a miserly girl, but Ms. A don't care about this.

I know if I was Ms. A, I will so care about how other people commented on me.

Summarizing all the things I typed, scenes and phrases flashed in my mind, story of Ms. A and B, I made a decision.

FRIENDSHIP is a real important relation, bond, link, connection within human. I will appreciate all the friendship that comes along my life.

But it is impossible I regard all my friends as best friend, some you admire, some you dislike, some you feel comfort to be together, some made you feel tension.

Friends that I love and you love me too, I will love you more.

Friends that I love but you don't love me, I will continue love you.

Friends that I don't love but you love me, I will start learning to love you.

Friends that I don't love and you don't love me either, we are just Friends. I won't care much of you and I believe you won't care much on me.

[So which group are you? Do I love you, or do you love me?]

Instead spending times hating the people that we don't care;

Putting times on loving the people we care.

[I have no idea why I posting this, probably something imbalance inside me. Hope this post will not stop you from approaching me to be my friend]

古时，今时。

先说今时：

某厨房工作情况：

鸡肉稍微煮焦了，丢掉。

猪肉切得不均匀，丢掉。

食物摆盘时摆得不美，摆慢了些，冷了，丢掉。

要吃一块鸡肉，就一块而已，肯定需要一只鸡。如果说一块肉=一只鸡， 那么一天，在小小的一间厨房，就夺去了十几条生命。

全世界，不知N 个国家， N个厨房， 就这样十几条生命 乘 N 再乘N，就 = 10N^2 (很多的意思)

在我住的地方：

厨房旁放着一个机器，可以按咖啡，可可等饮料来喝。

免费的哦

可是，

发现什么不妥吗？

杯，宝丽龙(Polystyrene)的杯。

不讲它装烧水对我这个喝下去的人有什么危害，单讲它对环境的破坏，已经"够力"了！

[ 宝丽龙是一种致癌物质，同时破坏保护地球的臭氧层.
喝咖啡的保丽龙杯子、 自助餐盘子，几百年後还是垃圾，继续污染环境.]

（懒惰找有力的网站来支持我的立场，但稍微找了点解释。）

如果每餐用一个，一天三餐，一天用三个，一个月就差不多一百个。住在这儿的人少说也有六七十个，一个月就七千个，一年就….. 而且，我算的只是这小小的一个地方。

一开始没留意这些，我也照用，现在我都不敢用了。有时忘了，不小心用了，也不敢丢，想着可以废物利用吗？收着收着，也收了好几个。

还有我的牙齿印，可能可以当在英国的纪念品，带回给家乡的朋友。（留一个给你）

在"脸书"看到某些地方进行烹饪比赛，比"生"，比"新鲜"

（脸 = FACE, 书= BOOK )

他妈的，

蛇还没死，身体还在蠕动，把它快刀斩，上菜。

鱼还没死，头还能转动，又是快刀斩，上菜。

这些人难道不能"设想"吗？

设想自己是那条鱼，那条蛇。

还有，

什么高级，名牌，羊毛，熊毛，什么毛。

取动物毛来炫耀，不讲这，动物还活着，却没了毛，满身鲜血，看了不会心疼？

"今时"，还有很多可以写下去，但写了也没用。很多人已经，很早就呼吁环保，爱惜动物，保护大自然生态等，能做到的人，已经在做，不能做的人，总会有借口。

古时

古时简单多了，古时没有高级厨房，三餐温饱就算，哪管你鸡肉焦了多少。

古时没有宝丽龙。

古时也不管你把鱼煮得多鲜，能下肚就好。

古时，就算取动物毛，也很干脆，直接的杀了，取，哪有打，打，打，打到动物昏，不杀，扯，扯，扯。

虽说写了没用，但如果有人，哪怕只是一人，看了有感受而因此改变，那我就

不枉此写。

真切恳求大家，从小小的行动开始吧！

这些是我用过的废纸。

学生总制造很多纸，把用过的纸，收了拿去再循环，也是一小步。

未来(Treasure in Friendster III)

未来-- 不就是还未到来，未知数的将来的缩写。
就因为未来是个未知数，所以才让人担心！！
未来，是个怎样的东西？

其实要知道，不会很难。讲透了，不就是要看现在罢了....

人因梦想而伟大；人应为自己设定个未来，然后改变自己的航道，转向能够带领我们到想要到达的未来的航道！！！

常听人说要"把握当下" 这是对的，我非常赞成。但，

您的当下，是否是在对的航道呢？

是那条把您带到您想要的未来的航道吗？

如果您每天都很把握当下的在卖白粉，走私翻版光碟，但期待着未来您会成为知识渊博的教授，有可能吗？

不要盲目的"把握当下"  您很珍惜的用每一秒在做着对您将来没有贡献的事情，那是浪费。

（对我来说，把握当下的同时，当然偶尔必须轻松一下，来块kit kat）

所以，我们应想想，到底我们的未来是要怎样的？要怎样才能到达那未来呢？然后在肯定后，您就可以改变您的现在，虽说未来是未知数（unknown），但其实，若深一层想想，未来其实是可变数（variable），因为您现在做的，就是决定您未来的主要因素。

若您现在在正确的航道，那您要做的就是"把握当下"了。

换句话说，"把握当下"就是您的定数(CONSTANT)了！！

记得，您能想到的，您一定能做到。

不要拿您的能力，来决定您的未来。

让您要的未来，来改变您的能力！！

（人不可能一劳永逸，决定了的航道不一定就是你一生的航道，所以一段时间后，或许要调一调整，因为，车走了五千也要service）

骄傲 (Treasure in Friendster II)

人在顺境中，并一直获得别人的肯定，认同和赞赏，难免会开始骄傲，自满起来。

接着发生的，就是这个人会开始关闭自己，否认他人，
因为，
他觉得自己高人一等，他，自视过高。

（虽然在人前不会显得明显，因为老师教我们做人要谦虚）

这同时意昧着，他的成长，就到此为止，因为，他的骄傲，已偷偷的替他画上了相框，句号。

在成长过程中，并不可以出现句号，不可以为自己画上相框，
也就是说，
不可骄傲。

应如稻禾般，越饱满，越垂下。

骄傲，
抹杀了一个人学习的机会，
让人停下脚步。

在开始对自己觉得满意时，就应接受新的挑战，更艰难的任务，让自己有机会碰一碰壁，方能发现自己的不足之处。

活到老，学到老。

重复 (Treasure in Friendster 1)

重复，是件无聊的事？

做过了的东西又再做，能获得什么？

重复，可以增加熟练度。同样的事情，在重复的做了几次后，所需的时间就减少了。
（这就是为何工厂有Specialization这东东)

重复，可以增强自信心。毕竟，已老马识途了。
但，
重复的犯错则另当别论。


重复的过程中，如发现错误，必须马上改正，
因，
重复的犯错，让你犯错的熟练度更高！！

时时思考，回顾自己的过去，找找是否有熟练度已很高的错误，及时改正。

别让错的一直再错，一错再错！！

Treasure in Friendster

Long long time I didn't log on to my Friendster. Since Facebook appeared, Friendster is nothing for me.

Just now, due to curiosity on how my Friendster now, I logged on and have a look.

OMG, I found some TREASURE in it.

( Please dun go and log on Friendster that hurry now, finish read the below paragraph 1st)

Now I recalled I wrote blog before, long long time ago, in Friendster.

I don't know why I wrote blog that time, but I am going to share what I posted before in here with all of you.

Sorry to English reader, the blogs are all in Mandarin.

Thank you.